Thursday, November 1, 2007

Islam's Woman Problem

Andrew Sullivan links to this article about statements by Nik Abdul Azia Nik Mat, described as "the spiritual leader of the opposition Pan-Malaysian Islamic Party." It seems that Nik is worried about the emotional abuse of men:

“We always [hear about] the abuse of children and wives in households, which is easily perceived by the eye, but the emotional abuse of men cannot be seen,” Nik Abdul Aziz said. “Our prayers become unfocused and our sleep is often disturbed.”


So what is it that gets Malaysian men so riled up? Women who wear sexy clothes in public.

Just another fruitcake, you say? Well, maybe -- it is important to remember that he is a leader of the opposition party, and that it is therefore safe to assume that most Malaysians don't agree with him. It is certainly a mistake to view all Muslims as one undifferentiated mass. Still, in a country of about 25 million people, his Pan-Malaysian Islamic Party claims 800,000 members. That is an appreciable portion of the population. And Malaysia is a non-Arab Muslim country -- it's not Saudi Arabia.

It's not unusual for left-leaning secularists to warn against christian reconstructionists and dominion theology -- which is fair enough, since those people are nuts. But you know, the chances that the country which brought Jessica Alba to the world is going to devolve into a theocracy where sassing one's parents is punishable by death is pretty low.

Which is why, while American secularists ought to oppose what Andrew Sullivan calls "Christianists," we ought to recognize that views which are relegated to the lunatic fringe among western Christians are, in fact, quite mainstream in the Muslim world. So, for example, while every majority-Christian country has a legal code undoubtedly influenced by Christianity, none have adopted any form of "Biblical Law" which purports to apply Biblical commands directly. Yet a number of countries have, in form or another, adopted some form of Sharia law.

Islam is a real problem, and you don't have to take a "the only good Muslim is a dead Muslim" view to recognize that fact. Not all Muslims are Islamists, but it is not clear, as of now, that Islam is compatible with a secular state that is tolerant of religious differences. And it might be a good idea for my atheist friends to stop obsessing about ultimately trivial stuff like moment of silence laws and worry more about a religion many of whose members actually do want theocracy.

1 comment:

梁爵 said...

有女陪侍酒店11月16日解封營業,豈料因疫情停擺半年,公關小姐大多另謀出路,包括出國打疫苗陪酒、轉戰傳播、飯局妹或私人招待所,酒店大鬧「小姐荒」,到班率不到復業前的一半。為此台北市酒店業率先提高坐檯費來「搶小姐」,帶動全台酒店聯漲,幅度約1成。業者盼價格戰奏效,重回百花齊放的榮景。
5月中旬新冠本土疫情爆發,全台酒店停業半年,復業後儘管上門尋歡要攜帶疫苗接種紀錄「小黃卡」,報復性消費酒客仍絡繹不絕;尷尬的是,店家普遍沒有足夠的陪侍小姐能接待。
缺錢公關 轉戰傳播、酒店兼職飯局以北市中山區目前最大的一間禮服店來說,上周末有100名酒店上班公關上班,僅疫情前一半;另家高檔便服店,則酒店工作只有15人到班,只有之前的2成。張姓業者形容,他有18間包廂,晚上7時營業,預約酒客10分鐘就客滿了,但酒店應徵
小姐根本不夠,只能說抱歉。
業者分析指出,酒店公關家裡缺錢,哪能忍受半年沒收入,在經紀人牽線下,都往傳播酒店兼差、飯局跑,甚至出國陪酒。酒店業者因此提高檯費抽成,讓小姐重新考慮回酒店打工,但半個多月下來,仍不見成效。
業者提高坐檯費 漲約1成
抬高坐檯費,加上部分酒商以國際疫情導致貨運成本增高,調漲酒錢,反映在酒客身上,就是漲價約1成,原本1個小時消費1500元的酒店,漲到1680;2100元的高檔酒店,更是漲到2310。加上酒錢,一群人喝數小時,埋單動輒近10萬,早已非正常上班族能花得起。
業者更不諱言,只要調漲,價格就回不去了。雖然北市酒店最多,衝擊最大,但全台都鬧小姐荒,這波調漲是全台聯漲。桃園酒店業者就說,台北市對酒店PT酒店小姐最有誘因,連北市都缺,其他地區怎可能不缺,一定跟著漲價留人。酒客只能大嘆:「油價都沒漲這麼快!」
除小姐荒之外,北市原本與龍亨、巴塞隆納並稱3大高檔便服店的麗園酒店,酒店經紀受疫情影響,原本大股東不願經營,在上月並未申請復業,留下的包廂暫時租用給業幹做招待所。松江路一家陸客最愛的制服店,也和同集團其他店整併。
業者說,目前觀察農曆年後疫情是否再起,否則不僅酒店小姐卻步,資金不夠雄厚的店家,可能也撐不下去,紛紛轉做招待所,有牌酒店版圖將大洗牌。